Because that is how rational people handle those problems. Making first sure there is no misunderstanding before making themself and their simps ridiculous in front of everybody. I do get that a lot of socially inept people are in our community, but just because you are unable to communicate, the rest of humanity should not take that as an example how to handle things from now on.As Willdbeast () pointed out in another thread, if you believe you've been racially abused by someone why on earth would you want to speak to that person before calling out the behaviour?