It's not selfish, just ignorant. You need to look into how this thing spreads and why it's so important that everyone does their bit to help delay the spread. This is the biggest health crisis of our time. Maybe the "official rulings" haven't been updated yet, but you can see the way things are going. Just stay home a bit more for a few weeks. It could literally save lives.I dont see how it's selfish to go a meetup that's allowed by official rulings