Thanks for all the input. In the game against the goths I was just booming on Arabia, since my enemy did either and his score was pretty low. So i tought i would win the imperial battle. I was byzantine, so this time is was completely my fault. I just didnt look at the civ of the enemy. Otherwise i wouldnt go arbalest. It was too late to switch to another units. Huskarls completely destroyed my base. If i was Britons it was another story. I really dont know what to do. You want going archers, but you cant. Britons vs Goths is just a bad match up. There would be more bad match up. So i am looking for an overall rule of thumb of how to deal with this kind of situations. Like being Turks in a 1 v 1 seems also pretty bad (almost everything cost gold). In team games with trade gold is never an issue. In 1 v 1 it becomes an issue.
It also happened multiple times both boars were in the same spot and i just missed them. I first scout my own base untill i have all sheeps / boars. So i was around 16 vills and didnt found the boars. Pretty bad. In another game however i had 3 boars: One boar was from the enemy. He just wanna lure the boar and i could block the vill with my scout, so he lost the vill. Then i send my one vill and lured the boar to a mill (made it for berries or deer). Luckily my base wasnt on the other side of the map, otherwise i would lost the vill too. I think in that game i milled his deer too. In the end i did won that game too.
It also happened multiple times both boars were in the same spot and i just missed them. I first scout my own base untill i have all sheeps / boars. So i was around 16 vills and didnt found the boars. Pretty bad. In another game however i had 3 boars: One boar was from the enemy. He just wanna lure the boar and i could block the vill with my scout, so he lost the vill. Then i send my one vill and lured the boar to a mill (made it for berries or deer). Luckily my base wasnt on the other side of the map, otherwise i would lost the vill too. I think in that game i milled his deer too. In the end i did won that game too.